It was a gloomy week for me because I kept quarrelling with a person I really care… So, that week I had stayed with my girls straight for 3 nights in Alamanda. One night, we kind of debating about the topic of love… since of us accidentally brought the topic up.
No offence, but we kind of angry at most guys who does not know how to differentiate what type of love each other gives and take between different gender whether that two are friends, colleagues, bestfriends, bestfriends with benefits, or lovers.
The love they wish to give always turn out different when they wish to deliver it to the girl. My best friend tries to defend her distant relationship with her boyfriend but she knows when I talk about this things, it’s always true. This is due of me being an observer and a good listener to most of my friends who are in a relationship status.
Love has 3 different meaning and saying it in Malay Language really clears out the differences. Thus, I would like to use it here also… hehehehe.
Love – Kasih
Perasaan yang asalnya wujud secara semulajadi sesama keluarga.
Perassan kasih yang selalu dan patut dberikan kepada seorang yang di gelar kawan.
Perassan seperti ini juga sering diberkan tanpa pengetahuan penerima (pendek kata tepuk sebelah tangan atau dalam Bahasa Inggeris-indenial feelings)…
Perasaan ini juga akan digunakan dipermulaan pengenalan jika suka kepada seseorang lebih dari seorang kawan.
Love – Sayang
Perasaan sayang berlaku apabila tercetusnya perasaan ingin mengenali seseorang n merapatkn lagi hubungannya dengan si dia lebih dari seorang kawan, dan seorang yang meminati dan telah memendam perasaan tersebut.
When theres click and sparkles, then you can consider this type of love should be given and taken.
Nowadays, people tend to use this feeling when their stating themselves as scandals, bestfriends with benefits, and unofficial lovers.
This type of love always makes us confused of what eachother give and take.
Love – Cinta
Eternal pure love; where there’s sacrifices, trust, honesty, sharing everything with you beloved. For better or for worse, facing varies challenges of being with eachother. This love is form when you know that the person is made just for you, that the person that you love till death is the one.
As we were talking, my friend changed the tv channel and Al-Kulliyah was on. So, we were watching it and when the Uztaz announced the topic of discussion, we all laughed so loud. My friend was shocked and called me an antenna. The Uztaz was also talking about differences meaning and category of “Love” which are “Love-Kasih”, “Love-Sayang”, and “Love-Cinta”. The friend of mine who have a boyfriend was shocked to hear both the Uztaz and my explanations about these three level of love are the same.
Each of us has to be careful when we use the word “I Love You” to a certain someone. We must make sure what type of love that we give and the type of love that we receive from him/her.
Thursday, August 21, 2008
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